When a man's girl/wife is perfect, why does he look for another woman?

I want to know, when he get almost a perfect woman, he always looks for anther, even if he loved her( the first one), so whats the reason for him to cheat?Give me a reasonable answer, please?





Thanks.

When a man's girl/wife is perfect, why does he look for another woman?
If a man has a perfect wife or girlfriend, I think he should go looking for someone else.





Perfection can get pretty damn irritating after a while.
Reply:.. you have not said looking for another one for WHAT?











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in healthy societies, where i don't know if they exist anymore at my nowadays sightseeing, boys and girls, men and women, can do many things that don't include the statement of "betrayal"


I think the more we fish for fears they become us!
Reply:well some people just have to ruin a good thing. but mostly its this genetic male imperative to spread their seed
Reply:Because some men do not know how to live an honorable life and keep their pants on.





No one is perfact....why would anyone want to be...failure is an important part of life too.
Reply:You're essentially asking, "If a man prone to cheat thinks he found a perfect woman, would he cheat?" Yes.





People who cheat DO NOT have a value code that exceeds the need for instant gratification. Just imagine yourself as committed to a goal, such as diving into the pool and not the concrete. Would you veer your dive to the right if you saw pretty flowers on the right? No, silly, you say...





Well, it is the same with a what one calls "values". Values keep one aligned and going in the direction one aims to go.





Persons who cheat really do not have the solidification of values due to any personal reason (and for most people who cheat, they just are impulsive and they are not complicated enough to analyze).
Reply:because its hard to live up to an almost "perfect" person...=}
Reply:He's spoiled and he got bored with her. Thats as simple as it gets. Goodluk!!
Reply:I think the biological need to spread his seeds is a complete cop out. Humans have evolved way past that. It is the media and the society one lives in who create the views of how women, and men should act, look, and behave. Also, I do not believe in complete or almost perfection.
Reply:Either she isn't perfect, or perfection isn't what is sought.
Reply:because it is unnatural for two people two stay together their entire lives, look how high the divorce rate is! In our new promiscuous society, it is impossible to stay faithful, so my advice is make sure you really really love the person you are considering getting married to, make sure this isn't lust. If you get divorced it could rip a family apart, and have adverse effects on children or the disgruntled loved one who didn't want a divorce.
Reply:Primates are not perfect.


Mother Nature created males to breed with as many females as possible. She created females to hang on to one for two years. That is how long it takes for a chimp baby to become self sufficient in their society.
Reply:Because he isn't perfect.
Reply:Because the wife is not as perfect as the OUTSIDER thinks she is.


Or the man is a dreamer.Believes the grass is greener on the other side.
Reply:This is a great question that can be answered through a quick thought experiment. Before stating the experiment, the simple answer is that men seek quantity of sexual encounters and women seek quality. But why?





Think if you had a deserted island with only 10 people and the rest of the world was destroyed; what strategies would be different given different ratio of sexes on the island, if your goal was to begin to reproduce civilization? First, if you had 9 women and 1 man, the man would seek to impregnate ALL 9 women because THEN there is the potential to have 9 children in 9 months. In contrast, if you had 9 men and 1 woman, the woman would attempt to select the MOST FIT mate (for looks, strength, intelligence, etc.) because she can only have ONE child ever 9 months and wants to MAKE SURE that THAT child has I high likelihood of surviving the island. So, biologically, men seek more mates (it is hardwired and difficult to resist because it is engrained in their DNA).
Reply:Most likely he feels that the relationship isn't based on anything plus it could mean that the wife/girl is crazy





THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PERFECT
Reply:yeah, I wanted to ask this question myself.


yet i want to answer.


would a most beautiful wife (with everything desirable character) keep the man from hunting for another one? the answer is "NO".


Because it is the man who is flawed, imperfect who would be looking for another. He doesn't deserve the perfect one .





on the other hand, if he is any good person, he would only choose his wife as the one he'll want forever, beauty or not.


becuse it doesn;t matter at all.





it is the person, right or wrong.
Reply:Biologically, what a man wants in a lover is often different than what he wants in a long-term mate. Of course, this does not shield cheaters from guilt; a commitment is a commitment.
Reply:Obviously she wasn't perfect to him.





As one philanderer once put it, "she's got nothing you don't, honey. She just had hers right there!"
Reply:The problem lies in perfection.... A perfect woman would be like a mannequin, would you like a mannequin as a wife? Let me find that one quote...





"Take the relationship of love. I may be in love and my girlfriend may be a flawlessly beautiful and wonderful person, but if I can control her completely and become immersed in her perfection, I might as well fall in love with a mannequin. However, if she has a little mole on her cheek, or some kind of unpredictability of character, then the accidental has been introduced into the domain of the orderly, and I can enjoy her humanity more easily."


(Alan Watts)