Monday, May 11, 2009

Can my husbands parents take my son away from me for seeing anther man before i am legally divorced?

I am getting divorced and my husbands parents are trying to prove me unfit in court for having an affair on him. my husband is not trying to take him only them. Can they get him?

Can my husbands parents take my son away from me for seeing anther man before i am legally divorced?
No
Reply:I dont think they can, but get a lawyer anycase..
Reply:no the only way they can get him unless you abused the child but no worries the judge wont even see them
Reply:They have to prove you unfit. Check the state out, grandparents have no rights in certain states.
Reply:It all depends on their attorney. Justice is what you pay for.
Reply:Unless they have a really good lawyer or can prove that you really are an unfit mother the NO they cant...





And as an affair are you legally seperated or seprated in both his and your eyes? Then you good...And how can she prove you had an affair unless you tell everyone YES I DID
Reply:Your ex-husband's parents are crazy but they might get away with this unless you get a good lawyer. Start looking for one right away. I doubt they can do it since your child's father isn't trying to get custody but you sure don't want to have to find out the hard way.
Reply:As long as you can show the courts that you can take care of your son it shouldn't be a problem.
Reply:Infidelity is NOT a reason for being ruled unfit. Child and/or drug/mental abuse are the main causes for being ruled unfit. Lapses of good judgement doesnt have much of anything to do in family court so no matter what they say,this just aint gonna happen no mater how hard they try. Also his parents have no business in your marriage and most likely will be told so by the Judge. You have nothing to worry about here and you can inform them to mind their own business and stay out of your marriage/divorce.
Reply:Probably not but you need a good lawyer to protect your interests. If they have a lawyer and you do not it is going to be very difficult for you.
Reply:If ur ex inlaws haven't started the proceeding yet, I would diffenitly be the one to filling for the custodial parent right away. Do not give them the leverage in intimidating u that u r unfit do to an affair. People make those mistakes all the time, that doesn't mean u r not a suitable parent as long as u know u take care of ur son and do not neglect him u have nothing to worry about.


First of all go file for custodial parent giving ur ex visitations and if he is working he can pay for ur attorny cost. In the papers u file u can attach papers in ur own words about ur concerns for ur son's welfare in the presents of his grandparents and how they have harrassed u, I would make sure if u have any documentation of anything against him and his parents do plz attach. The reason is because before u have ur court date u will c a mediator and he will talk to both parents together and go over ur papers u filed and do speak up about ur concerns believe me he does hear them and takes them into consideration and if the child is 5+ he will talk to the child alone all the info he recieves he will make his judgement and give the judge his recommendation and he rules on that. It sounds like u have a long road ahead of u with ex inlaws like that, if they have nothing on u they can't prove anything u have nothing to worry about, but I would watch my back the next thing they will do is call CPS just to push the issue. I wish u the best of luck.
Reply:You could lose them if you are an unfit parent. In your case you are not an unfit parent because you had an affair on your husband. Get a good lawyer. And watch your back. Your in-laws cannot be trusted right now. If they can do this then they can do much more harm to you by saying all kinds of things that you are not. Whatever happened in your marriage is none of their business. And they should not take it out on you by trying to take your kids away from you. They should not even be near your children because you don't know what they are capable of telling the children behind your back. Be strong. And good luck.
Reply:Prob not. If they can't prove you unfit, if you are not doing drugs and all kinds of bad things, then they are just pissed.

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